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C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn hay m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 khi\u1ebfn ta thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i, nghi ng\u1edd ch\u00ednh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hi\u1ebfm g\u1eb7p, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn \u00e2m th\u1ea7m s\u1ed1ng chung m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong> kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m t\u00e2m l\u00fd, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 g\u00ec ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u201cT\u1ef1 ti\u201d l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ho\u1eb7c ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n so v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u1ede g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, \u201ct\u1ef1\u201d ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, \u201cti\u201d ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi. K\u1ebft h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i, kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t, kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng ho\u1eb7c thua k\u00e9m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, Alfred Adler, nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef \u201cinferiority complex\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ti. Theo \u00f4ng, t\u1ef1 ti c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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So s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ef1 ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ti kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf m\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu suy ngh\u0129, chi ph\u1ed1i c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u00e0 ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ef1 ti kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u201cthi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ti th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen v\u00e0 \u00edt d\u00e1m th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. Nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n r\u00f5 t\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong> gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u00e2m th\u1ea7m gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ef1 ti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ef1 ti th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111an xen, trong \u0111\u00f3 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng. Vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ecb so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, b\u1ecb ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh gay g\u1eaft, hay thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00ecnh k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i c\u0169ng g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ef1 ti. M\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c. Khi th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thua k\u00e9m, m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, nh\u01b0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ecbu b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c tinh th\u1ea7n, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. C\u00e1c k\u00fd \u1ee9c n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1eed l\u00fd l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cb\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng\u201d c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u0169ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3. C\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, lo \u00e2u k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, ho\u1eb7c h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Khi nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, ch\u00fang d\u1ec5 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng l\u1eb7p ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3 ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ef1 ti n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ti th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd d\u1ec5 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng nghi ng\u1edd n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u00edt khi tin v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lo \u00e2u, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng khi ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ti c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. H\u1ecd ng\u1ea1i tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u201can to\u00e0n\u201d thay v\u00ec th\u1eed th\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Trong giao ti\u1ebfp, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i nh\u1ecf, \u00edt nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1eb7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd mang t\u00ednh h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t trong nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau. Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ti th\u01b0\u1eddng e ng\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1nh b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1. Trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c tham gia th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn nh\u00f3m. Trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, h\u1ecd d\u1ec5 thu m\u00ecnh, \u00edt ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 duy tr\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n s\u1edbm nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u1ef1 ti \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ef1 ti n\u1ebfu k\u00e9o d\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ti d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i lo \u00e2u, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 cao ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m ho\u1eb7c r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n lo \u00e2u x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an, kh\u00f3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, t\u1ef1 ti tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n l\u1edbn. Vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng ho\u1eb7c n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh th\u1eed th\u00e1ch m\u1edbi khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00f2ng l\u1eb7p ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, t\u1ef1 ti khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta thu m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. V\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, h\u1ecd d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ed1n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1ch v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3 \u01b0u v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ebd gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf r\u1eb1ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111o b\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch hay ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti\u1ebfp theo, h\u00e3y ph\u00e1t huy nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau nh\u1ecf, kh\u1ea3 thi. M\u1ed7i m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y n\u00ean di\u1ec5n ra t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc, tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eb7t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u qu\u00e1 cao d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1edf r\u1ed9ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, nh\u00f3m h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ho\u1eb7c c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 s\u1edf th\u00edch s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i giao ti\u1ebfp, chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 tinh th\u1ea7n. S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 ti \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c kh\u00f3a hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m s\u1ebd cung c\u1ea5p gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 vi\u1ebft nh\u1eadt k\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, h\u00e3y ghi l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y k\u00e9m t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac khi \u0111\u00f3. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y gi\u00fap nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n m\u1eabu suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n (self-affirmation) c\u0169ng mang l\u1ea1i t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111ang ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y\u201d. L\u00e2u d\u1ea7n, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u1ea1c quan h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt th\u1edf s\u00e2u v\u00e0 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m lo \u00e2u \u2013 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi t\u1ef1 ti. Ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0i ph\u00fat t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u01a1i th\u1edf \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, tham gia ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb. Vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho r\u1eb1ng t\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y thay v\u00ec ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn hay che gi\u1ea5u. Vi\u1ec7c d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chuy\u00ean gia khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf, thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, n\u01a1i khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n thay v\u00ec so s\u00e1nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 ti \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u, chuy\u00ean gia c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn, h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo h\u1ecd, s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ti g\u00e2y ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 t\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong> gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00edu ch\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Khi d\u00e1m thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thua k\u00e9m s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea3y qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn, m\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1ecf m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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